Words of Wisdom in a Letter by John Newton

How to Walk with God

by John Newton

(Famous Pastor and Writer of the hymn “Amazing Grace”)

March, 1773

Dear sir,

A simple dependence upon the teaching and influence of the good Spirit of God, so as not to supersede the use of appointed means, would, if it could be uniformly maintained, make every part of duty easy and successful. It would free us from much solicitude, and prevent many mistakes. Me thinks I have a subject in view already, a subject of great importance to myself, and which perhaps will not be displeasing to you—How to walk with God in the daily occurrences of life, so as to do everything for his sake and by his strength.

When we are justified by faith, and accepted in the Beloved—we become heirs of everlasting life; but we cannot know the full value of our privileges, until we enter upon the state of eternal glory. For this, most who are converted have to wait some time after they are partakers of grace. Though the Lord loves them, hates sin, and teaches them to hate it—he appoints them to remain a while in a sinful world, and to groan under the burden of a depraved nature. He could put them in immediate possession of the heaven for which he has given them a fitness—but he does not. He has a service for them here; an honor which is worth all they can suffer, and for which eternity will not afford an opportunity, namely—to be instruments of promoting his designs, and manifesting his grace in the world. Strictly speaking, this is the whole of our business here, the only reason why life is prolonged, or for which it is truly desirable, that we may fill up our connections and situations, improve our comforts and our crosses, in such a manner as that God may be glorified in us and by us.

As he is a bountiful Master and a kind Father, he is pleased to afford a variety of temporal blessings, which sweeten our service, and as coming from his hand are very valuable. But they are by no means worth living for, considered in themselves, as they can neither satisfy our desires, preserve us from trouble, or support as under it. That light of God’s countenance, which can pervade the walls and dissipate the gloom of a dungeon, is unspeakably preferable to all that can be enjoyed in a palace without it. The true end of life is, to live not to ourselves—but to Him who died for us; and while we devote ourselves to his service upon earth, to rejoice in the prospect of being happy with him forever in heaven.

These things are generally known and acknowledged by professors; but they are a favored few who act consistently with their avowed principles; who honestly, diligently, and without reserve, endeavor to make the most of their talents and strength in promoting the Lord’s service, and allow themselves in no views or designs but what are plainly subordinate and subservient to it. Yes, I believe the best of the Lord’s servants see cause enough to confess, that they are not only unprofitable in comparison of what they wish to be—but in many instances unfaithful likewise. They find so many snares, hindrances, and temptations, arising from without, and so much encumbrance from sin which dwells within—that they have more cause for humiliation than self-complacence, even when they seem most earnest and most useful.

However, we have no Scriptural evidence that we serve the Lord at all, any farther than we find a habitual desire and aim to serve him wholly. He is gracious to our imperfections and weakness; yet he requires all the heart, and will not be served by halves, nor accept what is performed by a divided heart.

Doing all to the glory of God, is the true alchemy which turns everything to gold, and ennobles the common actions of life into acts of piety; 1 Cor. 10:31. Nor is there a grain of real goodness in the most specious actions, which are performed without a reference to God’s glory. This the world cannot understand; but it will appear highly reasonable to those who take their ideas of God from the Scripture, and who have felt the necessity and found the benefits of redemption.

We are debtors many ways—the Lord has a right to us by creation, by redemption, by conquest, when he freed us from Satan’s power, and took possession of our hearts by his grace; and, lastly, by our own voluntary surrender, in the day when he enabled us to fix our choice on himself—as our Lord and our portion. Then we felt the force of our obligations. We saw the beauty and honor of his service, and that nothing was worthy to stand in the least degree of competition with it. This is always equally true, though our perceptions of it are not always equally strong. But where it has been once really known, it cannot be wholly forgotten, or cease to be the governing principle of life; and the Lord has promised to revive the impression in those who wait upon him, and thereby to renew their strength; for in proportion as we feel by what ties we are his—we shall embrace his service as perfect freedom.

Again—when the eye is thus single, the whole body will be full of light. The principle of acting simply for God, will in general make the path of duty plain, solve a thousand otherwise dubious questions, lead to the most proper and obvious means, and preclude that painful anxiety about events, which upon no other plan can be avoided. The love of God is the best casuist; especially as it leads us to a careful attendance to his precepts, a reliance on his promises, and a submission to his will.

Most of our perplexities arise from an undue, though perhaps unperceived, attachment to SELF. Either we have some scheme of our own too closely connected with our general view of serving the Lord; or lay some stress upon our own management, which, though we suspect it may possibly fail us, we cannot entirely help trusting to. In these respects the Lord permits his servants occasionally to feel their own weakness; but if they are sincerely devoted to him, he will teach them to profit by it, and bring them by degrees to a simplicity of dependence, as well as of intention. Then all things are easy. Acting from love, and walking by faith, they can neither be disappointed or discouraged. Duty is their part, care is his, and they are enabled to cast it upon him. They know, that, when their expedients seem to fail—that he is still all-sufficient. They know, that, being engaged in his cause, they cannot miscarry; and that, though in some things they may seem to fall short of success, they are sure of meeting acceptance, and that he will estimate their services not by their actual effects—but according to the gracious principle and desire he has put into their hearts. 2 Chron. 6:7-8.

To Love is to be Vulnerable

“To love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything, and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one. Wrap it carefully round with hobbies and little luxuries; avoid all entanglements; lock it up safe in the casket or coffin of your selfishness. But in that casket – safe, dark, motionless, airless — it will change. It will not be broken; it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.” C. S. Lewis

Why love, when losing hurts so much? To me it’s like saying ‘why eat, when you’re just going to get hungry again?’ The answer is simple, we need food to survive. As such, we humans are built to need love. We can’t help it. The unfortunate thing is loving can hurt. Love makes us vulnerable to heart break of all depths. This, of course, is because of our fallen sinful world. And yet, all of us, every person on the face of the planet that has ever existed, wants to, and even needs to, love and be loved. But choosing to love, in a deep way, in a steadfast way, is asking for hurting, it is choosing the possibility of suffering over safety. And it is worth it. Why?

 “’Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.” Alfred Lord Tennyson

Husbands/Wives, realize that God only gives us so much time on this earth. Be vulnerable and love each other more and with boldness this week, knowing that in one another you have a gift from God. Simply choose to love more. How?

“Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.” Ephesians 5:22-33

Grace and Peace,

Josh

Knowing the Real Jesus Changes Us

“Great facts to keep in mind! Isn’t the Gospel amazing? Wow!” JCG

The Christian Post, Aug. 14, 2010

Edmond Chua

Christian Post Correspondent


Jesus changed the lives of people in His day. And there is no reason to suppose that He cannot do the same today, said a New Testament professor.

The problem, Rikk Watts highlighted, is that many Christians have become too familiar and comfortable with the Gospels.

Watts, who teaches at Regent College in Vancouver, Canada, has been conducting lectures on the Gospel of Mark as part of a seminar at St. Andrew’s Cathedral in Singapore. On Thursday, he showed some 200 pastors and Bible teachers just how outrageous Jesus’ claims and actions really were.

Here was a Jewish man in His 30s, the son of a carpenter, claiming to be Almighty God Himself, Watts elaborated. When people brought a paralyzed man before Him, He forgave the man’s sins. Jesus even read the thoughts of orthodox Jewish leaders present who took issue with His declaration.

And then Jesus claimed the authority to redefine Jewish religious law, which originated from God Himself. He also told Jews in His day that they were Israelites only insofar as they accepted and obeyed His teaching. In His parable of the soils, Jesus repeated a lament of God found in the Book of Isaiah thus implying He is God.

Jesus also did things that only God could do. When a storm threatened to overturn a boat His disciples were on, they screamed for His help. Jesus rebuked the storm and it stopped. For the Jews, the event recalled God commanding the Red Sea to part for Moses and his people to pass through.

Immediately following that incident, Jesus and His disciples got off at a place where they met a man possessed by evil spirits. The spirits, who called themselves Legion, begged Jesus to permit them to go into a large herd of pigs feeding nearby. When they did so, the herd rushed down the steep bank into the lake and drowned. Reading Mark’s account, the Jews would not have missed the parallel with the way God closed the sea on Pharaoh and his army who pursued the Israelites.

Moreover, it showed Jesus doing something no one else had ever done. He cast out demons, as Isaiah prophesied God would do. Like God, He was able and willing to heal and help His people. Jesus performed many healing miracles and cared for the people as a gentle shepherd and fed them.

Furthermore Jesus’ life recalled the Exodus, in which God delivered the Israelites from slavery in Egypt.

The Jews, immersed in Old Testament Scripture and history as they were, would not have failed to see how most of the miracles (or mighty acts) were performed in the first eight chapters. This recalls the time Moses and Aaron performed ten mighty acts forcing Pharaoh to release the Israelites from captivity.

The Jews would also not miss the resemblance between what happened on Mount Sinai and on the Mount of Transfiguration. On Sinai, God descended in a cloud and gave Moses the Ten Commandments and instructions for building a tabernacle for sacrifice and worship. When Jesus was transfigured, Moses and Elijah conferred with Him just as with God previously. Apostle Peter suggested building three tabernacles for them. Suddenly a glorious cloud descended. God declared Jesus as His Son and told the apostles to listen to Jesus.

Jesus’ clothes became dazzlingly white, recalling the dress of the Jewish bridegroom. It brings to mind God’s promise that He will come as a bridegroom of the Church.

Mark goes on to relate the way Jesus tried to tell His disciples about His journey to the cross. This section is bracketed by two miracles of healing the blind. To the Jews, recovery of sight referred to understanding God’s truth. Then, just as the Israelites entered the Promised Land, Jesus goes to Jerusalem.

The prophecies in Malachi run parallel to the record of Mark. Malachi prophesies that God will send a messenger before He comes to His temple. God warned that if the people do not repent He would curse the land. Mark begins with the coming of John the Baptist, who is dressed like Elijah and calls the Jews to prepare the way for God.

The Jewish leaders reject John and Jesus. Symbolically, Jesus cleanses the temple in Jerusalem. He also curses a fig tree, which represents Israel. The temple is finally destroyed by the Romans.

Loving God by Loving One Another

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. In this the love of God was made manifest among us, that God sent his only Son into the world, so that we might live through him. In this is love, not that we have loved God but that he loved us and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; if we love one another, God abides in us and his love is perfected in us. By this we know that we abide in him and he in us, because he has given us of his Spirit. And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent his Son to be the Savior of the world. Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God. So we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and whoever abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him. By this is love perfected with us, so that we may have confidence for the day of judgment, because as he is so also are we in this world. There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear. For fear has to do with punishment, and whoever fears has not been perfected in love. We love because he first loved us. If anyone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen cannot love God whom he has not seen. And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother.” 1 John 4:7-21

Christian, the love of God for us should be leading us to love one another. Make an effort to forgive, care, and concern yourself with fellow brothers and sisters this week, some of which are suffering, afraid, lonely, or in need. And all of whom need prayer.

Grace and Peace,

Josh

Happy Reformation Day

Tomorrow is Reformation Sunday. If you have the time, give a listen to this message from last year’s celebration of Reformation Day by Albert Mohler. What is most funny is that he is a Baptist preaching at a Presbyterian Church about Martin Luther. Talk about unity among brethren. Enjoy!

Satan Cannot Sing: A Celebration of Martin Luther’s Hymnity by Al Mohler

Abiding in God’s Love

THE LOVE OF GOD

 The love of God is greater far than tongue or pen can ever tell.
It goes beyond the highest star and reaches to the lowest hell.
The guilty pair, bowed down with care, God gave His Son to win;
His erring child He reconciled and pardoned from his sin.

 CHORUS:

O love of God, how rich and pure! How measureless and strong!
It shall forevermore endure—The saints’ and angels’ song.

 When hoary time shall pass away, and earthly thrones and kingdoms fall;
When men who here refuse to pray, on rocks and hills and mountains call;
God’s love, so sure, shall still endure, all measureless and strong;
Redeeming grace to Adam’s race—The saints’ and angels’ song.

 Could we with ink the ocean fill, and were the skies of parchment made;
Were every stalk on earth a quill, and every man a scribe by trade;
To write the love of God above would drain the ocean dry;
Nor could the scroll contain the whole, though stretched from sky to sky.

Think about the love of God for you today, Christian. You are unlovable, wretched, sinful, and yet he died for you. His love is a depth, far more than we can ever understand. Abide in God’s boundless love as you go throughout your week.

Grace and Peace,

Josh

Sing It Like You Mean It

Dad’s, Sing Like You Mean It Because Your Kids Are Watching

by Stephen Altrogge on March 13, 2012(from http://www.theblazingcenter.com)

[This was written by a man in my church named Keith McCracken. May we be inspired by the example of Keith’s father.]

My father was a wonderfully eccentric man. He was a quick witted recluse and a virtual Picasso of mechanicalia. He worked third shift (11:00PM to 7:00AM) for 37 years (without missing a day or ever being late) so as to avoid having his talents “supervised into obscurity.” To most people outside of his family he was hard to understand and blissfully unconcerned with anyone else’s opinion of him. But despite all of that he was very overt about his faith in, and love for, our Savior Jesus Christ.

Though I hold many cherished memories of him, perhaps the most vivid was his excitement over singing certain hymns. By all accounts he possessed at best an “average” voice when it comes to uniqueness and tonal quality. But he sang his favorites with a conviction that was beyond convincing and was by far one of the loudest and most joyful voices in a congregation of approximately 350. I remember looking up at him and “checking him out” while he was singing… “Is he for real?” I would wonder. When he would catch me looking at him he would simply “lock-eyes” with me and sing all the louder while he broadened his grin to match proportion with his pleasure.

He wouldn’t just sing hymns at church either. I can think of many times when the two of us would be welding up a go-kart frame or swapping an engine on a Saturday afternoon and he would spontaneously break into a hymn. In my teens and early twenties I actually found it annoying given the perplexity of some of the situations we would be deep into. But then again I would eventually come around and sing with him anyway. I just never managed to muster the joy he got out of it. I didn’t think about it then but I can see clearly now that he was blessing me with rich God honoring doctrine. That he was lovingly cramming truth into my psyche that would not return void in my soul.

The now heart-softening aspect of these memories is that I am standing here in my church singing these same time impervious truths in front of my children. I catch them looking up at me and I wonder if I am anywhere near as good an example as he was. I get caught up and overwhelmed when I recognize the blessing that God had granted me in an earthly father. How diligent Dad was to bless me in an eternal way without ever making a point to tell me that he was doing it.

Jack McCracken passed away on March 9th of 2010 from pancreatic cancer. The last day I saw him alive was March 8th. We were alone and I was brutally tired from all that had preceded. He could not speak or even open his eyes but the nurses assured me that he could hear so I just prayed for him and encouraged him to trust in Jesus and look for him to come soon. When my nephew arrived I felt comforted that dad would not be alone and I decided to return to my parents’ house and get some rest. I asked my nephew for just a few moments alone with dad and I grasped his hand firmly, kissed his forehead and said: “You did a fantastic job as my father and I am so glad I got to be your son. Thank you for taking me to church. But more importantly thank you for going to church and being joyful there. Thank you for singing like you meant every word… You have no idea how that still affects me… I love you dad.

I stepped back and whistled a “call” he had taught me when I was very young. It would not have been discernible to anyone in a crowd but it meant “I am right behind you” and “I am coming.” I hugged my nephew and thanked him for coming then drove to my parent’s home. Three hours later I was awakened by a phone call from my nephew telling me that “Grampa was gone.” I slumped back into my chair. I wept bitterly. Then I cried out to God for comfort and without much thought I began singing one of Dads favorite hymns…“Jesus paid it all.” As I was singing I began to hear Dad’s voice singing with me… Not as any kind of haunting specter or communion with the dead kind of thing. Much more like a perfect echo… I began to envision his face and felt like I was a little kid again looking up at him. His grin was broadening and his voice was getting louder. I began to thank God over and over for the gift he had given me in my earthly father and the gift of salvation that he had granted to both dad and I. I just laid on the floor and prayed then cried, then sang then prayed some more. I have no idea how long I spent in that state but I can tell you that God granted me peace through it.

Now almost two years later I am still unable to sing a lot of those “old-Baptist” tunes without experiencing the “echo” of my father. I count it a privilege to sing these rich truths in tribute to the one true God; but I also experience the benefit of knowing I am fulfilling the scriptural command to honor my earthly father as well.

I decided to write this all out first as a means of expressing for myself what is sometimes difficult to verbalize. And secondly as a means of encouragement to the fathers in this church. Please sing like you mean it on Sunday morning. I am not asking you to “fake” anything… but rather embrace the very meaning these songs were written for. Seek to express your joy in your Savior Jesus Christ by singing in response to what he has done for you, and in agreement with the truths imbedded in these songs. Neither am I encouraging you to do this specifically for your children’s benefit but first for yourselves with the added comfort of knowing how much it will affect your children. I am simply encouraging you to worship in spirit and in truth. Sing strong because that is what God wants from you. Trust God to bless your children with the echo.

True Christian Love

by A.W. Pink

Love is the Queen of the Christian graces. It is a holy disposition given to us when we are born again by God. It is the love of God shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Spirit. True spiritual love is characterized by meekness and gentleness, yet it is vastly superior to the courtesies and kindnesses of the flesh.

Bible LoveWe must be careful not to confuse human sentimentality, carnal pleasantries, human amiability and affability with true spiritual love. The love God commands, first to Himself and then to others, is not human love. It is not the indulgent, self-seeking love which is in us by nature. If we indulgently allow our children to grow up with little or, no Scriptural discipline, Proverbs plainly says we do not love them, regardless of the human sentimentality and affection we may feel for them. Love is not a sentimental pampering of one another with a loose indifference as to our walk and obedience before the Lord. Glossing over one another’s faults to ingratiate ourselves in their esteem is not spiritual love.

The true nature of Christian love is a righteous principle which seeks the highest good of others. It is a powerful desire to promote their welfare. The exercise of love is to be in strict conformity to the revealed will of God. We must love in the truth. Love among the brethren is far more than an agreeable society where views are the same. It is loving them for what we see of Christ in them, loving them for Christ’s sake.

The Lord Jesus Himself is our example. He was not only thoughtful, gentle, self-sacrificing and patient, but He also corrected His mother, used a whip in the Temple, Severely scolded His doubting disciples, and denounced hypocrites. True spiritual love is above all faithful to God and uncompromising towards all that is evil. We cannot declare, ‘Peace and Safety’ when in reality there is spiritual decay and ruin!

True spiritual love is very difficult to exercise because it is not our natural love. By nature we would rather love sentimentally and engender good feelings. Also many times true spiritual love is not received in love, but is hated as the Pharisees hated it. We must pray that God will fill us with His love and enable us to exercise it without dissimulation toward all.

The Ledger

by Tim Challies

www.challies.com

05/23/1

Near the center of every religion is a ledger. Every religion acknowledges, on one level or another, that people do good things and bad things and every religion then maintains a tally, supposing that one day there will come a reckoning. Every religion hopes that on the day of accounting, the day of the audit, the good will outnumber or outweigh the bad. There is hope for those who come to that day with a surplus and no hope for those who come with a deficit.

Islam acknowledges sin—deeds that contradict the will of Allah—and calls its adherents to do good that will outweigh the bad. Good deeds are repentance, prayer and certain acts of charity and kindness. Each of these go in the ledger as credits meant to balance the debits.

Judaism acknowledges sin—violations of God’s commandments—and calls on its adherents to make atonement, reparation of relationship with God, through the good work of repentance, through making right the wrongs done to another person, through prayer and devotion. Each of these is a black entry in the ledger that may outweigh the red.

Buddhism acknowledges sin, or something like it, and calls on its adherents to avoid it in favor of something higher and better. Bad deeds bring bad karma which must be outweighed by the good deeds that bring about good karma. When the accounting comes, the good must outweigh the bad, or fate will not be kind.

Hinduism acknowledges deeds that draw us toward and deeds that draw us away, though a Hindu would hesitate to describe such deeds as sin. Still, it calls on its adherents to repent of what they have done that is bad and to restore parity with repentance or acts of contrition.

 Roman Catholicism acknowledges sin—acts not in accord with reason informed by Divine law—and calls on its people to be made right with God primarily by grace bestowed through the use of sacraments such as baptism. Great sins, known as mortal sins, destroy the grace of justification which must then be restored through penance and works of satisfaction. Though Catholicism acknowledges the importance of grace and faith, still it demands deeds, meritorious deeds, that may help restore balance.

Christianity, the Christianity of the Bible, acknowledges sin—acts that transgress or do not fully accord with God’s revealed will—and calls on its adherents to avoid sin altogether. There is a ledger in the Christian faith, but a unique ledger. This ledger allows no balancing. The moment there is one red mark, the moment any sin is entered in the balance sheet, the books are closed. Baptism merits nothing; penance and confession merit nothing; good deeds bring no good karma and no merit in the eyes of God. Balance cannot be restored by any human action.

What can be done? The answer is simple: the account must be settled by someone else. Merit cannot be intrinsic, so it must be extrinsic. And this is where we look to Christ in faith, faith that acknowledges that Christ’s merit can be—has been—applied to us and faith that is itself a gift of God. “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast” (Ephesians 2:8-9). The debt is canceled, it is paid, exclusively and eternally by the work of Jesus Christ.

Love Borne From Sorrow

Ephesians 3:20-21 Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen.

Sorrow has a funny way of expressing itself. Sometimes it overtakes us, consumes us. Sometimes it is faint and in the background, mostly unnoticed by others. Sometimes it brings us to our knees and forces us to make the hardest of choices. But sometimes it can develop into the greatest human joy and love that one could hope to dream of. I say human joy and love, because the use of sorrowing times should always lead us to God to seek comfort. And if we know how to look, we will see that He always does……. through many different means.

With that in mind, let me tell you a story; a story of love borne from sorrow.

Nearly two years ago, a young, bright, funny, sweet, and lovely 29 year old woman began having symptoms of something, something unknown….., something that caused her health to take a turn for the worst. She began suffering from an unknown illness, an illness that caused her a variety of neurological issues, pain, insomnia, and fatigue. The many doctors she went to did not know what to do. They could not quite figure out why all of the sweet young womans’ tests kept coming back negative. This went on for quite a while. Finally, the right doctors were brought in to find out just how to treat this girl, now 30 years old, and her unknown illness. She was eventually diagnosed with Chronic Lyme Disease. This Lyme bug had been attacking her Central Nervous System. And these doctors were telling her that she needed to go through a treatment of high doses of antibiotics, as well as a variety of other meds, change her diet drastically, and, really, change her life for a time. As she started this treatment, she began to blog about her experiences, opening her heart to others who needed encouragement during their own trials, even though she was facing the toughest and most distressing part of her life and learning to trust God in the midst of great sorrow.……

A bit over a year ago, a young, burly 29 year old man found out his beautiful wife had cancer, a type that is very difficult to treat. They spent the next 10 months on a very intense chemotherapy regimen. Finally, the Lord took his wife up to heaven at the end of her long hard battle. Towards the end of that battle, the young man started a blog. He posted updates on the situation and wrote articles that would hopefully inspire and encourage others, even those who were grieved over the trial as well, to trust in God in the midst of inescapable sorrow. When his wife died, the young man was at a loss, especially because he had a 2 year old son at home.  But somehow, the Lord began to heal him from his grief. The young man also understood that sharing his thoughts and feelings on his blog was helpful for him and others. So he continued…….

As he wrote, a great many people commented on his writing. Some expressed hope, prayers, and concerns. Some were more thoughtful, unique, and insightful. About two weeks after the young man lost his wife and started to heal from the grief, he began contacting some of the more insightful commenters, mostly to thank them for their encouragement. One commenter particularly stood out to him. It was a fellow writer/blogger, a young woman who uniquely seemed to understand his sorrow at the time. He began reading her blog and one thing that stood out to him was that she was going through a sorrowful time as well. She had an illness. Not one that he fully understood. But he could see her special precious heart in her writing, and read how her faith was put into action, and he felt compelled to respond…..It was all so innocent, you see. He sent her an email thanking her for her comments and asking her how she was doing and about her illness and how he could pray for her.

The young woman innocently wrote back, told him about her health issues and how he could pray for her, and began asking about how she could pray for him. And from then on, as fellow Christians, they began encouraging each other…..daily…..and finding out what made them both tick; Likes, Dislikes, Passions, Personality, Family, Friends, Struggles, Faith, Theology…..And all along the way, slowly growing a friendship based upon two sorrowful hearts seeking the Lord’s will for both of their lives; not even thinking about starting anything but a friendship with each other, but also…finding that in each other, they found a deep kindredness and like-mindedness that seemed to sooth both of their weary souls. Maybe it was in the caring for one another that starting to bring healing to the both of them. The grieving man began to come out of grief with vigor and a smile, and the sick girl became less and less sick and more and more energetic and robust. The two of them wrote nearly 200 lengthy email letters, and eventually had countless texts and phone conversations, all filled to the brim with information of who each other was at the heart. They got to know each other from the inside out, instead of the usual outside in. So when they finally met, they knew each other quite well…which was exactly 3 months to the day from when the young man first wrote to the young woman.

Who would have thought that the Lord would have worked out such a blessing, such a beautiful…….. love borne out of such great inescapable sorrow? This is one of those times that the Lord had an incredible gift to give two people who were in great need, yet not looking to find it in one another. But they found that God used each other as part of His means of healing and helping one another. And at the end of the unusual and tentative friendship was a God-made, brilliant, deep romance and enduring, passionate love to be found in each other.

And, as you might have guessed, this story is a true story. 4 ½ months ago today, this story began being written. It’s the story of the love shared by me, Joshua Grenier and my new love, Lydia Saugey!

And today is a special day. Today is my new love’s Birthday! Lydia, I Dearly Love You!!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MY BEAUTIFUL WONDERFUL LYDIA!!!